My husband had moved into his mother’s house to take care of her. I wanted to surprise him, so I went there with our seven-year-old daughter without telling him. When we arrived, the front door was slightly open. My daughter peeked inside, then gently tugged on my sleeve. “Mom, look—but do it quietly.”

My husband had moved into his mother’s house to take care of her. I wanted to surprise him, so I went there with our seven-year-old daughter without telling him. When we arrived, the front door was slightly open. My daughter peeked inside, then gently tugged on my sleeve. “Mom, look—but do it quietly.”

My husband, Ethan, had moved into his mother’s house “to take care of her.” That’s what he told me, anyway—soft voice, tired eyes, the whole devoted-son performance. For two months he’d barely come home, always saying, “Mom had a bad night,” or “She needs me, Claire. Just a little longer.”

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