At my mother-in-law’s birthday dinner in Rome, I approached the table and realized there wasn’t a seat for me. My husband even snickered, “Oh, looks like we miscounted!” The whole family laughed. I just said quietly, “I guess I’m not part of this family,” and walked out of the hall. No one tried to stop me. Thirty minutes later, the restaurant was in a frenzy. They found out the entire event — the venue, the staff, the menu, the wine — was all booked under my name. And I had canceled it. Their faces turned ghost-white…

At my mother-in-law’s birthday dinner in Rome, I approached the table and realized there wasn’t a seat for me. My husband even snickered, “Oh, looks like we miscounted!” The whole family laughed. I just said quietly, “I guess I’m not part of this family,” and walked out of the hall. No one tried to stop me. Thirty minutes later, the restaurant was in a frenzy. They found out the entire event — the venue, the staff, the menu, the wine — was all booked under my name. And I had canceled it. Their faces turned ghost-white…

I never imagined my mother-in-law’s lavish birthday dinner in Rome would become the turning point of my marriage. The restaurant was one of those places tourists waited months to book—crystal chandeliers, marble floors, waiters in pressed white jackets. I had spent weeks organizing everything: the private hall, the customized Italian menu, the Tuscan wine selection, even the pianist who played her favorite classical pieces. I thought it would finally be a chance for me to fit into the Rossi family, or at least to stop being treated like a decorative accessory beside my husband, Daniel.

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