My mother passed away when I was ten. Dad managed to hold things together for a few years, doing his best to keep life normal. But when I turned fourteen, he married her — Cheryl.

Grief burns and freezes all at once. That’s something I learned at nineteen, standing outside the house my great-grandfather built with his own hands, staring at five black SUVs in the driveway and wondering what hell looked like on the inside.

The house was never just wood and brick. It held echoes—of my mom’s humming as she folded laundry, my dad’s loud laugh when he told bad jokes, the creak of floorboards that meant “you’re home.” It had history, roots. It was family.

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