We were at my parents’ house for my sister’s baby shower. When it was my turn to hold the baby, my husband grabbed my arm tightly. “Take the kids and leave now.” “What? But—” “No time to explain!” His usually calm demeanor was gone. Trembling, I took our children and left. At home, he wouldn’t answer his phone. When I turned on the TV, I collapsed at what I saw.

We were at my parents’ house for my sister’s baby shower.
When it was my turn to hold the baby, my husband grabbed my arm tightly.
“Take the kids and leave now.”
“What? But—”
“No time to explain!”
His usually calm demeanor was gone.
Trembling, I took our children and left.
At home, he wouldn’t answer his phone.
When I turned on the TV, I collapsed at what I saw.

We were at my parents’ house for my sister Rachel’s baby shower, the kind with pastel balloons, a diaper-cake centerpiece, and relatives arguing over whether the baby would have “family eyes.” My husband Gavin came with me, and we brought our two kids—Owen, six, and Lily, four—because everyone wanted them in the photos.

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