At my sister-in-law’s wedding, I sat quietly in a corner. She stormed over in her heels and yelled, “Don’t sit just because you’re pregnant! I’m in heels too!” Her mother added, “Pregnancy isn’t an excuse. Stop acting weak!” Then a man took the microphone. The room fell silent… And they both turned pale.

At my sister-in-law’s wedding, I sat quietly in a corner.
She stormed over in her heels and yelled, “Don’t sit just because you’re pregnant! I’m in heels too!”
Her mother added, “Pregnancy isn’t an excuse. Stop acting weak!”
Then a man took the microphone.
The room fell silent…
And they both turned pale.

I went to my sister-in-law’s wedding because my husband Evan begged me to. “Just show up, smile, and we’ll leave early,” he promised. I was twelve weeks pregnant, exhausted in that bone-deep way that made my legs feel hollow, and still recovering from a rough first trimester that included fainting spells and a doctor’s warning: Don’t stand too long. Don’t ignore dizziness.

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