At my sister-in-law’s wedding, I sat quietly in a corner, trying not to draw attention. But she stomped over in her heels and snapped loud enough for everyone to hear, “Don’t sit just because you’re pregnant! I’m in heels too!” Her mother piled on immediately, sneering, “Pregnancy isn’t an excuse. Stop acting so weak.” I clenched my jaw, swallowing the humiliation as heads turned. Then a man stepped up and took the microphone. The music stopped. The room went dead silent. And the moment he spoke, my sister-in-law and her mother went pale—like all the blood had drained from their faces.

At my sister-in-law’s wedding, I sat quietly in a corner, trying not to draw attention. But she stomped over in her heels and snapped loud enough for everyone to hear, “Don’t sit just because you’re pregnant! I’m in heels too!”Her mother piled on immediately, sneering, “Pregnancy isn’t an excuse. Stop acting so weak.”I clenched my jaw, swallowing the humiliation as heads turned.Then a man stepped up and took the microphone.The music stopped. The room went dead silent.And the moment he spoke, my sister-in-law and her mother went pale—like all the blood had drained from their faces.

I didn’t want to be the “pregnant relative” who made someone else’s wedding about her body. So I stayed out of the spotlight—smiling when people smiled at me, moving slowly so I wouldn’t get dizzy, and when my feet started to ache, I slipped to a quiet corner near the wall where no one would trip over my dress.

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