During Thanksgiving dinner with my relatives, our maid quietly slipped a note into my hand. In shaky handwriting, it read “do not eat the dessert.” So I sat still, forking nothing, just watching. Then my nephew said, “if she’s not having it, I’ll take it.” He reached for a slice and my sister suddenly shouted, “no! Don’t”

Thanksgiving at my aunt’s house always looked perfect from the outside—warm lights in the windows, a long oak table set with polished cutlery, and the kind of laughter that sounded rehearsed. My name is Ethan Cole, and that year I arrived early with my sister, Mara, and her son, Liam. My older sister, Vanessa, was already there with her husband, Grant, and their daughter, Sophie. Everyone was dressed like we were filming a family commercial.

In the kitchen, our maid, Rosa Alvarez, moved quietly between the stove and the pantry, setting dishes down with careful hands. Rosa had been with my aunt for years. She was the kind of person who noticed everything—who needed a second to answer a question because she was watching the room while she listened.

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