At Thanksgiving dinner, my mother carved the turkey and laughed like she was telling a cute little joke. “Eight years old with end-stage kidney disease? Well… less of a burden, I guess. Ha!” Relatives snickered. Plates clinked. My sister leaned over, stroked my son’s hair, and smiled sweetly. “Six months left, right? Enjoy your last turkey.” Something in me went ice-cold. I set my fork down, grabbed my son’s hand, and walked out—no shouting, no tears, just silence. Because they still didn’t know the truth. The truth was… the diagnosis wasn’t my son’s.

At Thanksgiving dinner, my mother carved the turkey and laughed like she was telling a cute little joke. “Eight years old with end-stage kidney disease? Well… less of a burden, I guess. Ha!”Relatives snickered. Plates clinked.My sister leaned over, stroked my son’s hair, and smiled sweetly. “Six months left, right? Enjoy your last turkey.”Something in me went ice-cold. I set my fork down, grabbed my son’s hand, and walked out—no shouting, no tears, just silence.Because they still didn’t know the truth.
The truth was… the diagnosis wasn’t my son’s.

Thanksgiving at my mother’s house always came with two things: food and humiliation.

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