At my father’s funeral, my sister lifted her glass and smiled. “I’ve been waiting for this day my whole life,” she said, loud enough for everyone to hear. Gasps rippled through the room as my hands clenched. I leaned closer and whispered, “You shouldn’t have said that.” Because what she didn’t know was that Dad had left one final message—and it named her first.

At my father’s funeral, my sister lifted her glass and smiled. “I’ve been waiting for this day my whole life,” she said, loud enough for everyone to hear. Gasps rippled through the room as my hands clenched. I leaned closer and whispered, “You shouldn’t have said that.” Because what she didn’t know was that Dad had left one final message—and it named her first.

At my father’s funeral, the room smelled like lilies and polished wood, the kind of quiet that presses against your ribs. People stood in clusters, whispering condolences they’d practiced in the car. I held my program so tightly the paper creased.

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