I took in my 6-year-old nephew from my brother and his wife. That first night, he curled up under a blanket and whispered, “I think they might kill me—can you run before they come?” I laughed, thinking it was just a child’s nightmare. But three hours later, a shadow passed by the window. I grabbed his hand and ran out of the house.

I took in my 6-year-old nephew from my brother and his wife. That first night, he curled up under a blanket and whispered, “I think they might kill me—can you run before they come?” I laughed, thinking it was just a child’s nightmare. But three hours later, a shadow passed by the window. I grabbed his hand and ran out of the house.

I didn’t plan to become anyone’s safe place. It happened the way family emergencies always happen—suddenly, with guilt wrapped around every word. My brother, Eric, called me on a Tuesday and sounded exhausted in that careful, controlled way he used when he wanted something.

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