I had been rejected thirty-seven times when the door finally opened and my grandfather walked in, like a final verdict. He slid a file across the table and said, “Today, it all ends.” Inside were every lie my family had buried. He handed me a pen and whispered, “Sign it — and they lose everything. Don’t sign — and they’ll keep destroying you.” My hand trembled. Because a single signature would decide who my future truly belonged to.

I had been rejected thirty-seven times when the door finally opened and my grandfather walked in, like a final verdict. He slid a file across the table and said, “Today, it all ends.” Inside were every lie my family had buried. He handed me a pen and whispered, “Sign it — and they lose everything. Don’t sign — and they’ll keep destroying you.” My hand trembled. Because a single signature would decide who my future truly belonged to.

By the time I was thirty-two, rejection had become routine. Thirty-seven times, to be exact. Thirty-seven job applications declined, thirty-seven polite emails that all said the same thing in different fonts: we’ve decided to move forward with another candidate. I sat in the same conference room where I’d interviewed twice before, staring at the grain of the wooden table, already bracing myself for rejection number thirty-eight.

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