At the funeral, my grandpa left me the passbook. My mother threw it in the trash. “It’s old. This should have stayed buried.” I left the room and still went to the bank. The manager turned white. “Call the police. Do not leave.”

At the funeral, my grandpa left me the passbook. My mother threw it in the trash. “It’s old. This should have stayed buried.” I left the room and still went to the bank. The manager turned white. “Call the police. Do not leave.”

The funeral ended the way most funerals do—quiet hugs, murmured condolences, people already thinking about what came next. I stayed behind while others drifted out of the hall, staring at the framed photo of my grandfather in his military uniform, trying to reconcile that strong, stubborn man with the stillness of the coffin.

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