My daughter is 9 years old. Every day I send her to her maternal grandfather’s house because I come home late from work. One day, I unexpectedly came home early to pick her up, and a horrifying scene met my eyes. I was shocked.

For the past three years, ever since my divorce, my routine had been painfully predictable. I would drop my nine-year-old daughter, Lily Carter, at my father-in-law’s house every morning before heading to work in downtown Denver. Harold Bennett—Lily’s maternal grandfather—lived only fifteen minutes away in a quiet suburban neighborhood lined with maple trees and identical beige houses. He was seventy-two, retired, widowed, and according to everyone who knew him, “a gentle old soul.”

I worked long hours as a project manager for a construction firm. Most nights I didn’t get off until after seven. Harold would feed Lily dinner, help her with homework, and let her watch her favorite cooking shows until I arrived. Lily adored him. She’d chatter nonstop in the car about the cookies he baked or the old stories he told about growing up in rural Colorado.

“Grandpa says I’m his sunshine,” she once told me proudly.

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