“‘Don’t come to the family gathering,’ my dad texted. ‘Maria’s boyfriend is a state senator. We need to impress him.’ I replied, ‘Fine.’ That night, at a fundraiser at the country club, the senator was escorted to the head table. He froze when he saw who he’d be having dinner with. Then he started shouting, because…”

“‘Don’t come to the family gathering,’ my dad texted. ‘Maria’s boyfriend is a state senator. We need to impress him.’ I replied, ‘Fine.’ That night, at a fundraiser at the country club, the senator was escorted to the head table. He froze when he saw who he’d be having dinner with. Then he started shouting, because…”

Part 1: The “Fine” That Wasn’t Small

“Don’t come to the family gathering,” my dad texted. “Maria’s boyfriend is a state senator. We need to impress him.”
I stared at the message long enough for the screen to dim. My father, Raymond Alvarez, didn’t even pretend it was about feelings. It was about optics. My sister Maria had always been the family’s chosen story—pretty, polished, photographed in the right places. I was the inconvenient chapter: the one who moved out early, worked two jobs, and stopped begging for approval years ago.

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