The clinic called: “Congratulations, you’re pregnant!” But I was in Afghanistan. Turns out, my sister had secretly used my last three embryos. My mother said, “She deserves to be a mother more than you. You chose the military.” They had no idea what I was going to do next. The satellite phone rang at 3 a.m. Kabul time, waking me in my cramped room at Bagram Airfield…

The clinic called: “Congratulations, you’re pregnant!” But I was in Afghanistan. Turns out, my sister had secretly used my last three embryos. My mother said, “She deserves to be a mother more than you. You chose the military.” They had no idea what I was going to do next. The satellite phone rang at 3 a.m. Kabul time, waking me in my cramped room at Bagram Airfield…

The satellite phone shattered the silence at 3 a.m. Kabul time, its shrill ring slicing through the cold air of my cramped room at Bagram Airfield. I grabbed it, half asleep, expecting another briefing or emergency call. Instead, I heard a cheerful voice say, “Congratulations, Ms. Bennett — you’re pregnant!”

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