Years ago, my 7-year-old daughter and I created a silly little code. “A red balloon means I need help,” she joked. Now she’s fourteen — and suddenly she sent me every single one of our old codes. Her mother insisted I was overreacting, that she was just asking to sleep over at her best friend’s house. But when I arrived at that house and she wasn’t there, the real nightmare began…

Years ago, my 7-year-old daughter and I created a silly little code. “A red balloon means I need help,” she joked. Now she’s fourteen — and suddenly she sent me every single one of our old codes. Her mother insisted I was overreacting, that she was just asking to sleep over at her best friend’s house. But when I arrived at that house and she wasn’t there, the real nightmare began…

When my daughter Emma was seven, we invented a silly little code during a long car ride. “A red balloon means I need help,” she said, giggling as she scribbled it into a small notebook. We added more: a blue star meant she was scared; a green arrow meant “come get me.” It was nothing more than a father-daughter game — or so I thought.

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