When my daughter was seven, we invented a silly secret code. “A red balloon means I need help,” she laughed back then. Now she’s fourteen — and suddenly she sent me all those old emergency codes at once. Her mother insisted I was overreacting, that she only wanted to spend the night at her best friend’s. But when I went to that house and she wasn’t there, the nightmare truly began…

When my daughter was seven, we invented a silly secret code. “A red balloon means I need help,” she laughed back then. Now she’s fourteen — and suddenly she sent me all those old emergency codes at once. Her mother insisted I was overreacting, that she only wanted to spend the night at her best friend’s. But when I went to that house and she wasn’t there, the nightmare truly began…

When my daughter, Emily Carter, was seven, we created a silly father-daughter game: a secret code made of colors and objects. “A red balloon means I need help,” she said, giggling while drawing it in crayon. I never imagined that seven years later, that child’s game would return like a punch to the chest.

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