At Thanksgiving dinner, my mother raised her glass with a smug smile. “My eldest daughter is doing wonderfully—successful, stunning… and then there’s you, with all your disappointing choices.” Laughter rippled around the table while I stayed silent, gripping my napkin to keep my hands steady. But when she continued praising my sister like she was some kind of queen, I finally rose to my feet, placed an envelope in the center of the table, and said, “Since you admire her so much… you should know the truth behind her perfect life.”

At Thanksgiving dinner, my mother raised her glass with a smug smile. “My eldest daughter is doing wonderfully—successful, stunning… and then there’s you, with all your disappointing choices.” Laughter rippled around the table while I stayed silent, gripping my napkin to keep my hands steady. But when she continued praising my sister like she was some kind of queen, I finally rose to my feet, placed an envelope in the center of the table, and said, “Since you admire her so much… you should know the truth behind her perfect life.”

Thanksgiving dinner smelled of roasted turkey, sweet potatoes, and tension. My family gathered around the long mahogany table, crystal glasses sparkling under the chandelier. And as always, my mother sat at the head, ready to perform.

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