During Thanksgiving dinner, my mother lifted her glass, a mocking smile on her face. “My eldest daughter lives a life of luxury and success… and you—well, your choices speak for themselves.” Laughter rippled around the table. I didn’t respond. I just tightened my grip on the napkin. But when she carried on, praising my sister like some kind of crowned queen, I rose, placed an envelope in the center of the table, and said, “If you love her life so much… you should learn the truth behind it.” Silence swallowed the room at once.

During Thanksgiving dinner, my mother lifted her glass, a mocking smile on her face. “My eldest daughter lives a life of luxury and success… and you—well, your choices speak for themselves.” Laughter rippled around the table. I didn’t respond. I just tightened my grip on the napkin. But when she carried on, praising my sister like some kind of crowned queen, I rose, placed an envelope in the center of the table, and said, “If you love her life so much… you should learn the truth behind it.” Silence swallowed the room at once.

Thanksgiving dinner at my mother’s house had always been tense, but that year it felt like the walls themselves were waiting to see what would happen. My mother, Marjorie, sat at the head of the long oak table, her posture tall and rehearsed. My older sister, Bianca, sparkled beside her in a designer dress, laughing as if she were the star of a talk show. I took my usual seat—third chair from the end, close enough to participate, far enough to be ignored.

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