“My mom wants you over for dinner tonight,” I read in a text from my fiancé, just a day before the wedding. Everything seemed normal… until his mother leaned in and whispered something to him in Italian. They both laughed, assuming I didn’t understand. As we were about to leave, I gave her a soft smile, held her hand, and replied in flawless Italian: “Thank you for showing me who you truly are. The wedding—cancelled.” Their smiles vanished on the spot.

“My mom wants you over for dinner tonight,” I read in a text from my fiancé, just a day before the wedding. Everything seemed normal… until his mother leaned in and whispered something to him in Italian. They both laughed, assuming I didn’t understand. As we were about to leave, I gave her a soft smile, held her hand, and replied in flawless Italian: “Thank you for showing me who you truly are. The wedding—cancelled.” Their smiles vanished on the spot.

When I received the text from my fiancé, “My mom wants you over for dinner tonight,” I felt an unexpected warmth. Luca’s family lived only twenty minutes outside of Boston, but our schedules had been jam-packed with wedding preparations, so the invitation felt like a final gesture of acceptance before the big day. I spent the afternoon wrapping bridesmaids’ gifts, imagining a quiet evening where his mother, Bianca, and I would talk about centerpieces and guest lists over homemade pasta.

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