After my baby was born early, I texted the family group chat, “We’re in the NICU, please pray.” My aunt replied from a charity gala in a ballgown, and nobody came. Five weeks later, while I was still sitting in the hospital cafeteria, I noticed 62 missed calls and a message from my brother saying, “Pick up, it’s bad.” I answered the phone… and then—

After my baby was born early, I texted the family group chat, “We’re in the NICU, please pray.” My aunt replied from a charity gala in a ballgown, and nobody came. Five weeks later, while I was still sitting in the hospital cafeteria, I noticed 62 missed calls and a message from my brother saying, “Pick up, it’s bad.” I answered the phone… and then—

I had been staring at the blinking text for hours, my heart pounding against my ribcage. My baby, born prematurely, was fighting for life in the NICU, and I was alone. My husband was traveling for work, and the rest of my family… well, they had been nonexistent. I had texted the family group chat five weeks ago: “We’re in the NICU, please pray.” My aunt had replied from a charity gala: “Thoughts and prayers! Enjoying the ball, darling!” That was it. The rest of them didn’t even bother.

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