I wasn’t invited to my sister’s wedding. All they said was, “We had to cut some guests, hope you understand.” So I booked an ocean-view suite in Barbados, lit some candles, cracked open a coconut— and relaxed. On her “big day,” I opened TikTok and saw her livestreaming… crying hysterically, mascara smeared, voice trembling: “Someone canceled everything… why is this happening to me?!” My family called over and over. My screen showed 28 missed calls…

I wasn’t invited to my sister’s wedding. All they said was, “We had to cut some guests, hope you understand.” So I booked an ocean-view suite in Barbados, lit some candles, cracked open a coconut— and relaxed. On her “big day,” I opened TikTok and saw her livestreaming… crying hysterically, mascara smeared, voice trembling: “Someone canceled everything… why is this happening to me?!” My family called over and over. My screen showed 28 missed calls…

The whole thing started with a seven-word text message from my sister, Emily: “We had to cut some guests, hope you understand.” No explanation, no apology, not even a phone call. Just that. I stared at the screen, the words burning hotter the longer I looked. I wasn’t just “some guest.” I was her older sister, the one who walked her to school, defended her from bullies, helped her move to three different apartments, and once drove six hours in the middle of the night because she’d had a panic attack. But apparently, I didn’t make the wedding list.

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