My stepfather threw me out when I was 18, telling me I wasn’t his blood. Fifteen years later, broke at 32, I applied for Medicaid. The clerk typed in my Social Security number and suddenly froze. “This SSN was flagged by Interpol in 1994. It belongs to a child who was…” she said, before calling her supervisor. When he arrived, he stared at my face and whispered one word that changed everything.

My stepfather threw me out when I was 18, telling me I wasn’t his blood. Fifteen years later, broke at 32, I applied for Medicaid. The clerk typed in my Social Security number and suddenly froze. “This SSN was flagged by Interpol in 1994. It belongs to a child who was…” she said, before calling her supervisor. When he arrived, he stared at my face and whispered one word that changed everything.

My stepfather threw me out on my eighteenth birthday. There was no argument, no buildup — just a trash bag with my clothes and a cold sentence I’ll never forget:
“You’re not my blood. Get out.”

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