My parents canceled my 18th birthday just because my sister threw a tantrum. All that was left on the kitchen counter was a frozen pizza and a cold “happy birthday” message in the family group chat. A week earlier, they’d set off fireworks and hired drones to film her birthday. When I asked why, they only shrugged: “You’re not the type who likes celebrating anyway.” I didn’t respond. I didn’t eat. I simply moved out quietly. And then… from a distance, I watched their “perfect” family begin to fall apart — piece by piece…

My parents canceled my 18th birthday just because my sister threw a tantrum. All that was left on the kitchen counter was a frozen pizza and a cold “happy birthday” message in the family group chat. A week earlier, they’d set off fireworks and hired drones to film her birthday. When I asked why, they only shrugged: “You’re not the type who likes celebrating anyway.” I didn’t respond. I didn’t eat. I simply moved out quietly. And then… from a distance, I watched their “perfect” family begin to fall apart — piece by piece…

Eighteen was supposed to feel like a door opening. For Elliot Hayes, it felt more like someone closing it quietly in his face.

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