During dinner, my mother-in-law laughed and said loudly enough for the whole table to hear, “How does it feel to be a failure?” Everyone burst into laughter. Everyone except me. I set my glass down and smiled lightly. “Well, how does it feel knowing this ‘failure’ won’t be paying your bills anymore?” Her face instantly turned pale. The entire table went silent. My husband choked on his breath, and my father-in-law stared at her empty wallet. And for the first time, they realized who the real “failure” in the room was.

During dinner, my mother-in-law laughed and said loudly enough for the whole table to hear, “How does it feel to be a failure?” Everyone burst into laughter. Everyone except me. I set my glass down and smiled lightly. “Well, how does it feel knowing this ‘failure’ won’t be paying your bills anymore?” Her face instantly turned pale. The entire table went silent. My husband choked on his breath, and my father-in-law stared at her empty wallet. And for the first time, they realized who the real “failure” in the room was.

The night had started pleasantly enough. Katherine had spent the whole afternoon preparing dinner—roast chicken, garlic potatoes, a crisp salad—the kind of meal she made when she wanted harmony at the table. I had hoped for the same. But harmony wasn’t something my mother-in-law, Linda, ever seemed interested in providing.

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