At my sister’s wedding, she mocked me in her speech: “my sister is a single mother, unwanted by anyone. does anyone want to pick her up? w.” my mother laughed, “she’s a used product, but still functional! she even comes with a defective son! haha!” the room filled with laughter. that moment, the groom slowly stood up as he began to speak into the mic, the entire room froze.

At my sister’s wedding, she mocked me in her speech: “my sister is a single mother, unwanted by anyone. does anyone want to pick her up? w.” my mother laughed, “she’s a used product, but still functional! she even comes with a defective son! haha!” the room filled with laughter. that moment, the groom slowly stood up as he began to speak into the mic, the entire room froze.

My sister’s wedding was supposed to be a new beginning. For her. For our family. For the version of us that only existed in photos—smiling, coordinated, pretending history never happened.

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