Three years after my husband passed away, I was casually browsing Facebook when I stumbled upon a memorial post from a woman honoring her late husband—who had the exact same name and date of birth as mine.

“Grief never ends… but neither does doubt.”
— Anonymous

The sun had long dipped beneath the pine trees bordering the back porch, painting the sky in soft orange hues as Elise Brewster mindlessly scrolled through Facebook. Her coffee had gone cold beside her elbow, and the fireplace crackled faintly in the corner. It was a quiet Saturday evening in Asheville, North Carolina, one of the many quiet ones since Daniel died.

Three years had passed since the car accident. Three years since the trooper’s knock on the door, the way he removed his hat, the slow, rehearsed words: “Your husband didn’t make it.” Time had marched on—unevenly, cruelly—but Elise had adapted. She kept the house, worked part-time at the local library, and volunteered at the humane society. She was healing, or so she thought.

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