During Thanksgiving dinner, my five-year-old nephew wrapped his arms around my husband. “Dad, when will you come home again?” he asked innocently. I laughed nervously and corrected him. “That’s your uncle.” But the boy shook his head. “No. Mom said he’s my dad.” I turned to my husband — his face drained of color. Before anyone could speak, my sister rushed forward and clamped her hand over the boy’s mouth.

During Thanksgiving dinner, my five-year-old nephew wrapped his arms around my husband. “Dad, when will you come home again?” he asked innocently. I laughed nervously and corrected him. “That’s your uncle.” But the boy shook his head. “No. Mom said he’s my dad.” I turned to my husband — his face drained of color. Before anyone could speak, my sister rushed forward and clamped her hand over the boy’s mouth.