I was raised by an uncle who made it clear he never wanted me around. When I was 9, my parents dîed in a car crash, and he was the only family member who agreed to take me in. Or maybe “agreed” isn’t the right word. He only accepted because everyone around him practically bêgged him to.

I was raised by an uncle who made it clear he never wanted me around. When I was 9, my parents dîed in a car crash, and he was the only family member who agreed to take me in. Or maybe “agreed” isn’t the right word. He only accepted because everyone around him practically bêgged him to.

I was raised by an uncle who made it clear he never wanted me around. His name was Gerald Whitmore, a man whose face always looked like he was smelling something unpleasant. When I was nine, my parents — Michael and Laura Rivers — died in a sudden car crash on a rainy October night. I remembered the hospital lights, the adults whispering, the way my world collapsed in a single phone call.

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