My relatives told everyone I was a disappointment who flunked out of the Naval Academy. I stayed silent while my brother received his promotion… until his commanding officer looked over at me, locked eyes, and said, “Colonel… I wasn’t expecting your presence today.” The whole room went dead quiet. My father’s proud grin disappeared in an instant.

My relatives told everyone I was a disappointment who flunked out of the Naval Academy. I stayed silent while my brother received his promotion… until his commanding officer looked over at me, locked eyes, and said, “Colonel… I wasn’t expecting your presence today.” The whole room went dead quiet. My father’s proud grin disappeared in an instant.

My relatives loved telling the same story over and over:
I was the family disappointment.
The one who “flunked out” of the Naval Academy.
The one who “couldn’t handle discipline.”
The one who “failed where my younger brother succeeded.”

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